I have friends, you have friends, every one around us has friends.
Friendship is a part of life that is as old as mankind itself. And yet, its something that we don't quite understand.
Who are my friends? What makes them friends? How did they become my friends? Do they consider me their friends? What are my expectations of them? Are they aware of those expectations? Do they have the same expectations of me, or different ones? Am I aware of my expectations of them?
These and many more questions often run through my mind when I think of the subject friendship in general, and my own friends in particular.
As I share thoughts with others, I hear these words, "I thought she was my friend. How could she have done this?"
I want to make my friendships real. I want them to last a lifetime. I want them to be impactful for those I call my friends and for me too.
I went out to the book-store this week to buy a gift for a friend. As I browsed the shelves in the store, voila! a title caught my attention. "How to Be A Best Friend Forever" by Dr. John Townsend. Trust me, I picked it up, looked at the back and read these words,
"Friend. It's a word whose meaning is confusing, and whose usage is overdone in our fast-paced world. Increasingly, our circles of "friends" are a mile-wide, yet the relationships are paper-thin. Even so, there's nothing like the sustaining strength and life enriching power of true-blue, forever friends. And we need them now more than ever".
I knew immediately that book was going home with me. I got the gift for my friend, completed my shopping and left the bookstore.
As I write this post, I have Dr. Townsend's book with me. It's my book to read in the coming weeks. I intend to read it and practice the things I learn from it.
I will let you know what my experience is as I get on with reading the book.
Now, the floor is yours. For you, friendship...what does it mean?